I cried last night

You know  they do have a BLOCK OPTION for a reason!!!

It aint never been that deep you are too old and probably have far greater Suga Honey Ice Tea going on in your life to worry about this Fantasy Forum!!!


No dispect with the old thing but you get the idea!!

Thanks sweetie for your support!!

Naomi!

I could be wrong ( I have not read the previous post) but I have the feeling that it goes deeper than what someone said on here. Perhaps...this was just the straw that broke the camels back so to speak.  I know that people can be cruel here but they can also be cruel IRL! I think someone put it best....if they are not paying your bills....fluck him...in the cyberworld and IRL!!! . You know...sometimes that green eyed monster ruins the best of people....you know it does not take much to take an idiot down for the count! As long and you look in his eyes and you like what you see and you love how he makes you feel.....dust them ningas off!!!! You are a special person and I love how open and caring you have been on the board. Keep doing you...the rest will take care of itself!!    

Thanks sweetie for your support, it means so much!!

Every body's telling you to blow this asshole off and I agree, but I know your heart.  You are sweet (not stupid or weak) but sweet and I know that hurt you.  Baby, disconnect from the stupidness and reconnect you what God sent you.  You know this was said because somebody gotta hate or try to hurt.  I say take Trina's advice, go love your man baby. Let him love you and @#$% everybody else. 

Thanks sweetie for your support, it means so much!!

I initially wasn't going to reply to this post because I don't want to be a part of fanning the flames or add fuel to the fire.  However, since you and I exchanged ideas on the previous post I felt the need to clarify.

I in no way intended or wanted to attack you.  I initially joined the post to DEFEND you and say you can love who you want and don't need to justify to anyone.  The only point that we went back and forth on was the comments that I thought were disparaging or generalizing to black men.  We exchanged thoughts and got an understanding and that was that (or at least I thought so).  It saddens me that I may have taken part in something that caused someone pain.  But I would think you would find solace in the fact that the majority of the posters  including myself concurred that Mr. Baker was being a BAFFOON! 

Sorry, you cried.  But hope you feel better.  You were there for me when I got banded and I wouldn't want to hurt you.

Aww. Brenda that was so sweet of you, I know you meant well, thanks again for your support.

Dont know what happened on the other post (so maybe I should lay low and not say sh*t) however, I know enough to say this. Girl set boundaries with the cyber stuff or you will always take things personally. Be happy you are happy, there are alot of miserable people, not just here but in life who wont ever be happy. Shake the dirt off your shoulders and keep it moving.

Thanks for your support, it means so much!!